looksmaxxing is sooo #stupid

hey chat,

i very recently went down anothe rabbit hole of the whole "looksmaxxing" thing and it genuinely is FLABBERGASTING to me. i can't help but feel bad for them... like how can a person be so insecure and dislike themselves THAT much? it even makes me feel kinda guilty saying that but isn't that true???

i could empathize with this, because these men are genuinely slowly rotting their bodies and losing their minds. i mean, i'm a woman, i don't know about everyone else but i'm pretty sure looks are something that dictates our lives so much, so yeah, i get it. but the way these guys are going about it so incredibly sick and twisted.

i could understand if it's simply, "hey, i really hate how i look, it makes me so incredibly unhappy", fine, i'm sorry, i hope you find something that brings you joy and helps you feel confident, but that is NOT the case here at all.

the objectifying women, seeing them as trophies, the fucking "manosphere"??? hello, have we completely lost the fucking plot? and they question the "male loneliness epidemic". the lack of critical thinking is insane (probably from all the drugs they're taking). in what circumstances would a woman want a man that sees her as nothing more than another name on their list? plus, if you wanna be a rich gigachad, i don't think a girl would wanna date a man who spends his time streaming on the internet and staring at their instagram posts like GET A JOB??

i guess the worst part is that i still sympathize with these guys because someone must've screwed up their brain so bad that this is where they ended up. i won't deny that pretty privilege is real, i mean, it's a real socio/psychological phenomenon, but why are we sitting here continiously perpetuating this harmful thing? if it really fucks you up that bad, we should be working to accept everyone.

i don't know, i feel bad, i get it. women experience this EVERY DAY, yet men take it to the next level and use it as their twisted way of continuously putting women down. at the end of the day, it's misogyny.

i have so much more to say about this and i don't think a small ramble can express how insane i feel like this is but yeah, stay up girls. i think the best way to go about this is stop spending money on crack and face lifts, and idk maybe get a therapist...


xo,
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